We weren’t born parents; we went with our parents through struggles and the same issues.

It was the home phone, it’s the mobile phone today back then we rode in muscle cars, they ride in bullets that are tiny, now, our parents were afraid of marijuana and cocaine, we’re terrified of ecstasy and crack now. The bottom line is they are their place in this world and we’re in their way. They think we need them to be like we are and that’s the reason why we are from following their dreams and desires, hold them back.

The boys think the women believe they are girls and as such they should be permitted to make their own mistakes and they are guys, they need to be permitted to plow their areas. On the other hand, we, the parents don’t want them to go through hardships and the issues we endured, we wish to remove all and any stones that can make them stumble, and we would like to pave the road before them. Is it appropriate; although I don’t say needing to do this is incorrect, every parent wants the best for his kids? Is it fair for us to desire trouble to develop ? You have to reside to learn how to confront and enjoy life. You need to taste defeat, to learn how to fight wisely.

Many parents say and pretend to be or try to be the friends of their teenager. We’re not their friends, we’re their parents. Parents don’t go out gallivanting with their teens; behavior is not allowed by them . Our kids have friends, they don’t need more, we’re their parents and we have to act the part. It’s our responsibility to punish them not to celebrate what they have 19, if they do something wrong. Parents don’t celebrate violence against others they observe attention and compassion. Disobedience and rule breaking, once the ground rules are clear there’s not any mistake from both sides is not allowed by parents. I know it’s hard to converse together, I had three of those who are now one who’s fourteen and adults.

Screaming does not help and the violation , though it’s crucial, widens. Teenagers aren’t stupid; in actuality, they can be creative we must be on our feet and when it comes to mischief. They’ll test us whenever they have the chance and they’ll learn how to pull the lever to make us mad each time.

However, you know something, with patience and love they can be overcome, not by joining them and allowing them their own way but by working for a team together with your wife or husband and remaining strong. They’re so slick that they will discover the way disagree on subjects of their interest and to make their parents fight. Their instinct tells whom to steer clear of and who they need to request permission. Who and when they could push against every parent.

They’re our children, our flesh and blood, though we are seen by them as the enemy to beat we care and love for them.

It’s very important that the parents work and cope with adolescent issues they decide and speak, talk things and agree on what needs to and will be accomplished. Teens live to create chaos. If they see that there isn’t any way and the rules are agreed on by their parents they will stop trying. Both parents stick to their word and if they’re penalized they’ll understand so that they will behave, that subject is real.

They aren’t bad, they’re confused. You have to teach them what’s right and wrong. If they’re checking out websites that give out a hack instagram password or worse, nsfw content, reprimand them. Otherwise, if they’re doing they’re homework, reward them. Their lives change from being kids holding their mother’s hand to cross the road to a world filled with issues and problems they don’t understand how to take care of. Cars, girls, going out alone, and parties, everything is before them and they’re afraid to miss all and any of it. It’s life’s part, it’s our job as parents, not friends guide and to help them and into the light. Please be patient and do things not frustration or anger.